I think this is a issue with my build.
I received 6 3904's and 2 2n5458s.
I didn't realize that was a problem until I soldered everything up and began testing.
The 2 channels with 5458s the LED's wouldn't go off and relays turn on immediately after power is applied. I reflowed all soldering, that didn't work, I followed the advice in this thread
http://www.byocelectronics.com/board/viewtopic.php?f=52&t=56180 and I desoldered the relays on those channels and their transistors.
I began with one channel. Checked for the 5V with components removed, then relay only, then transistor. Failure situation happened after adding transistor.
The soldering is good, and in checking voltages and resistance in that transistor, I learned that the transistor on my failure channel was the only one present and showing different measurements.
I checked part numbering and found that the two that caused failures were 5458s (JFETs) rather than normal NPN (BJTs).
I don't have spares. Any chance you can throw a couple in an envelope with a stamp and mail them to me?